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Hello Famz, Welcome to Todays Talk Time Episode and weve come with a new topic and we would cordially want everyone to kindly share ideas and opinions on this very topic. Thank you
Now Lets Start From The Meaning Of This Two Different Words “Love” And “Respect”
What Is Love? Love is when you choose to be at your best when the other person is not at their best… Love is when what you want is never important. But what the other person needs and wants is always paramount. … “That’s a hard thing to do, but that’s what true love means.”
Now Lets Move To Respect.
What Is Respect? Respect is a way of treating or thinking about something or someone. You show respect by being polite and kind. … For a lot of people, taking your hat off while greeting is a show of respect. When people are insulted or treated badly, they feel they haven’t been treated with respect…
I Hope Youre All Going Along???
Now The Next Is How Its Been Differentiated!!!
Difference Between Love And Respect
The main difference between love and respect is that one is meant for everyone, and the other is meant for that special someone in your life. … Even if you believe respect is earned, you won’t earn the respect of anyone if you treat them wrong. It’s best that you be nice, show empathy, and be respectful…
If we consider Love as an engine of a car then Respect is the wheels. No matter how advanced engine is in car but without wheels car is not going to move. Love and Respect both complement each other.
But Respect should be given more value as per my personal view. Because If your feeling of respect is missing, i doubt that you can actually love that person.
Sometimes We can respect a person even if we are not in love with that person. Two people can live together even if they do not love each other but are respectful towards each other.
Love is a feeling but respect is something which is earned. Feeling of love is not in our hand but respecting someone is.
Now you all can now see they both have different meanings???
Now Unto The Next One Which Is
Which Of This Is Important Between Love And Respect In A Relationship
I will vote for ‘Respect’
Though we can respect a person without really ‘Loving’ her/him, but ‘loving’ someone without respecting them is beyond any cognitive reasoning.
‘Respect’ is an emotion, in fact a conscious emotion. ‘Love’ is more of a ‘State of mind’, more so an unconscious one. They are definitely not mutually exclusive but ‘love’ is definitely the sub set of ‘Respect.’
There can be people who might have a counter argument and they will probably the ones who are currently in state of mind of ‘Love’. But looking at life in realistic terms, the benefits of being ‘respected’ and ‘not loved’ by the people who surround you outweighs the benefits of being ‘loved’ and ‘not being respected.’
From the cognitive understanding perspective, there can be a very strong argument that ‘Love’ just CAN NOT exist without ‘respect’. I mean, how can you love someone who you do not respect? Though I have seen some experiences where people confess that they have had relationships where they were ‘Loved’ but not ‘respected’ and, unfortunately all those relationships FAILED.
Anyway, coming to the bottom line, if someone is accepting someone who is just ‘Loving’ and not ‘respectful’ to the person in question, s/he should not be surprised if s/he has to face any/all of the following side effects:
More negative thoughts
Disinterest in the person who is just ‘Loving’
Decreased communication with the person
Decreased ‘Love’ i.e. this state of mind becomes less and less frequent
There might be an end to the relationship
Can you imagine how miserable can life be when you are not respected by the person who you ‘think’ loves you?
Hope you get someone who really loves you and more than that really ‘RESPECTS’ you.
Yeah we’ll wrap it up for today and on the next post we’ll talk about alot more concerning this love and respect…
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