The Past And The Present Relationships
many people don’t know the difference between there past and present relationships. They keep living in their past in there present. This write up is expected to put more light on our present and our past relationships.
WHAT IS PAST
Past is an event in previous years or sometimes ago
WHAT IS PRESENT
present is what we are just experiencing at a particular moment or within a given period of time… Or let me say fresh happenings
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PAST AND PRESENT
1. past is not recent
2. It’s what that has happened and which can never come back back to us again
3. It’s something hurt and teaches us about the present life we are into.
1. It’s recent and fresh or what we are just experiencing
2. It can easily still be corrected
3. It hurt but you can still adjust some mistakes in it.
RELATING THIS TO OUR LIFE AND OUR RELATIONSHIPS
many people has failed because they don’t leave their past behind them. Past is like an heavy load of restriction that doesn’t let something go forward… If you don’t forget the past you can never enjoy the present.
RELATIONSHIPS MOST TIME NEED YOU TO STAY CLEAR
Relationship needs you to stay clear from your past… Because what you do in the past is already gone… And when you keep thinking too much about it you wouldn’t focus on what you are just doing
You are into an open relationship what someone that is well known to all your family and friends. But suddenly Something went wrong and you broke up for no good or tangible reasons. So for the reason that you think you can’t figure out what really break up the relationship, you might think keeping friends with such person isn’t a bad idea. Well you can say that it’s not a bad idea because they are not your enemy and they are not friends in case you don’t know… Let’s assume you have sex in the past and you are still keeping friends, if you don’t give a clear distance between yourselves… What you do in the past will still continue even when you are into another relationship already. It takes only grace to still be a friend with someone you have sex with before without having it again. It natural the feelings wouldn’t die it will definitely come back when ever you are close.. The conscience will still remind you of those days you are still together… So it’s good to stay clear from your ex or your past relationships.
LIVING IN THE PAST IS LIKE SETTING THE HOUSE ON FIRE
you might conclude your past don’t even hurt you when you are still with them concluding you broke up without having issues. But when there is a little distance between you. Believe me they might have changed from what you know them in those days. People can change easy. Trust a little, believe in your self all the time.
EVERY PAST HURT
every past hurt you but sometimes it might not be full of hurt… If your past is convenient for you or it’s doesn’t hurt you in anyway you will still be in it and you will never walk away from it. I believe It’s not so good for you that is why they no longer can be in your life… So stay very clear from it
STOP MAKING EX RELATIONSHIPS FRIENDS
They are difference between friends and ex. Having friends Is different from have ex and don’t ever mix the two together together. Let friends know their selves as friends and let ex stay clear from you. They can affect your relationship or marriage if you are becoming too close…. Anyone who once had sex with you wouldn’t find it difficult to still grab you anytime because they already know your weakness or weak point. So it’s advisable to stay clear from ex and make little friends of opposite sex too. As Ladies/guys in a good relationship, your best friend should be your man or your woman. Gist often and keep doing things in common. It will help your relationship/marriage to be more stronger in love.
IT’S POSSIBLE YOUR PAST TO HAVE SOME GOOD ADVANTAGES
For sure your ex are not dormant, every bad things has its own good side nobody is totally bad or use for nothing.. They might not be good for doing something’s…. But they must have their own good side… But don’t look at their good side, not anymore, because if you keep on looking at it, you will find it difficult to forget about them easily… Well you can’t forget them totally but try to make it once in a while not like thinking about you ex all the time. Days you can remember them should be days you and your spouse is trying to recall about what your past experiences look like.
So don’t ever look down on anyone and don’t ever think you can’t find better than anyone
Life is full of different people, different ideas and quality attribute.
Love your self and keep loving others. Stay close to what you desire and stay clear from things you don’t want anymore.