MATURE WAY OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP
1. Be Patient With Your Partner: Avoid
forcing your lover to do something
against his or her wish. Let everything
happen in the right time. There is no
need to rush.
2. Be An Understanding Partner: Try to
believe what your lover tells you, if he
tells you that he failed to get airtime to
call you, try to understand. He’s also a
human being like you. If she tells you
that by the time you called her, she was
asleep–please try to understand. She
also gets tired and she needs to rest like
any other person.
3. Always Forgive And Forget: Avoid
bringing back the old things your lover
did to you in the past every time you get
4. Be Caring: I don’t mean you should
go and borrow money from the bank
and friends to buy costly things for your
partner or taking him or her to
expensive hotels. I mean doing the little
things that suits your wallet. Trust me if
your lover is understanding he/she will
appreciate and love you that way.
5. Maintain The Communication With
Your Partner: Try keeping in touch with
your partner, call or text him or her—At
least once in a day. Don’t allow your
lover to start missing you. Be closer in
any possible way.
6. Be Faithful And Trustworthy To Your
Partner: I know you may be far away
from your partner. Sometimes, you may
start doubting him or her, and you start
thinking that maybe he or she is
cheating on you. and because of that,
you also start flirting and sleeping
around with different people—which
isn’t good at all. Fight those false
thoughts so that they don’t take you off
track. If you really love him or her, Trust
in your partner and be faithful.
7. Avoid Listening To Rumors: these
rumors are spread by jobless people.
They keep gathering false information
and then they spread it to you. Majority
of them have intentions which aren’t
good. Some are even interested in your
lover, they admire the way he/she cares
and loves you. So give them a deaf ear.
Written by Ajimoti olaitan