How Do I End This Relationship? (Please Advice)


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‘How Do I Dump This Guy?’

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I’m actually in my early twenties, not that I’m too old for marriage anyway. One of my top clients who I’m trying to polish out a business with, went ahead to arrange a mini impromptu by fire by force relationship for me and his brother.

Like bethrothing someone to someone else without their full consent.

It was a men’s arrangement cause, I was surprised how they all came to that agreement.

I tried breaking up with him the first time and he told his brothers about it. Guilt almost finished me cause, I was blamed for the excuse I brought up. His uncle who is in charge of the contract brought us back together again.

The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but, I don’t want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand.

The guy is very much attached to me already and I won’t fake it, I’m equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach.


I want to go about it in a very simple way. So that at the end, we all go our separate ways happy.

Any idea is highly welcomed. Serious and mature minds please.

Thank you.

Modified: I told him my own part of the story and my reasons of not wanting to be in a relationship with him.
I’m not ready for any relationship now and I dont like him. Most importantly, I dont want to chop his money while deceiving him.

He is still not accepting reality but, I’m sure with time, he’ll move on.

PS: His uncle isn’t aware of this yet and I begged him not to tell anyone.



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