There are certain red flags you notice as lady and you could still decide to stay and manage situations, after all no one is perfect. However, there are red flags you see and you should take to your heels as it spells irresponsibility and may turn out to become a big problem or trouble in the near future.
If you notice any of the traits below, then it is probably time to re-evaluate that relationship.
1. The Alpha Pompous Males: Number one on the list are the ones who literally carry their manhood on their head. Their masculine ego is three times their size. All you will keep hearing is “I am a man!” As if it’s an award. They impose their will on you, will never help out in doing anything, wants you to worship them like your god, never apologises for any reason even when they visibly hurt you. Sister run!
2. The Rich Fools: These ones belong to the “money made me Pompous” gang. They feel money is everything, infact all women want and need is money. They are very disrespectful, insult you at any given opportunity, go ahead to throw money and gifts at you when you get mad or protest their actions. They feel you can’t leave them, the money is the major attraction, therefore they are free to do anything with you. When you eventually leave, they will say you left for a richer guy. Avoid them at all cost.
3. The Mummy’s Boy: Understandably, mothers have a major and great influence on their children, especially the boys. However, this set of Mummy’s boys can not take a simple decision without first asking their mom. Their mom decides how he treats you, what he buys for you, what he let’s you do or don’t. Whether you are a good person or a bad person, that depends on their mom. She even gets to decide if he would marry you or not. Unless you are ready to play along with the mom or please her always, you should take your leave.
4. The Lazy Guys: These category of guys are the ones that are too big to work, they don’t have a job and even if you go out of your way to get them a small paying job for a start, they reject it saying they can’t stoop low to do that. They are not just broke but lazy. They sit around all day doing nothing, they beg you for money everytime and when you refuse to give, they guilt trip you. This set of guys don’t date broke girls, they target the independent ones and leech on them. Run!
5. The Casanovas Or Play Boys: They are very good at their game, very soft and swift with words, they know what to say at any given time and how best to deliver it into your ears. They are smooth, handsome fashionable and seem to know their way around almost every situation. They are professional liars and you will never suspect their words, they will treat you better than both your ex and your next. Make no mistake, they are simply with you for your money or body or even both. They will waste your time and at the last minute they will disappear. If he feels to good to be true, take off!
6. The Extravagant Ones: This ones can’t manage resources, they make money quite alright, but they spend as they make. Buy luxury things for themselves and for you, go on expensive trips with you, spend money on you with reckless abandon. They don’t plan for tomorrow and have no savings. You may be enjoying the luxury lifestyle now, but if you end up with him tomorrow and something goes wrong with his source of income, you will suffer, you better run!
7. The Violent Ones: This kind of guys feel violence solves all their problems. They are ready to fight at any given provocation. They panel beat you like you are a piece of metal sheet. You are always scared around them, the slightest wrong statement can get your face swollen. When they are done designing your body, they beg you like their life depends on it and out of sympathy you hang on. You will die if you don’t run!
8. The Sex Addicts: For these ones all there is to life is sex. They are very good at it, you will enjoy yourself very well, at least for the mean time. They know all the styles and how to pound you real good. However, they are never satisfied and always want to have sex. They take all sorts of mixtures or concoctions just to last long, every minute they are pounding you like fufu and you are moaning like a tied up goat. Except you are a nymphomaniac too, you will get tired of satisfying his untamed and unending urges eventually and then it will turn to force and sex slavery. Sister you need to run!